I am a coloured female that lives in a Western society.
Now I can’t speak for the other self-proclaimed victims out there, but I can happily say I have never felt inadequate or treated unfairly due to my skin colour or the fact that I am female. This is probably due to the fact that I’m not lazy. I work hard. I’m accountable. I’m not entitled; nor have I ever had expectations for things that I didn’t deserve. Anyone who knows me will confirm this.
I am so fucking sick and tired of seeing female victims everywhere, and these loser men who support these women’s victimised mentality. I say this because I’ve once been an actual victim. I have dealt with proper domestic violence – and not just the mental and emotional abuse that everyone claims is “domestic violence” (I mean, maybe you just need to toughen the fuck up or leave him), but I’ve actually been beaten at knife point.
Now I won’t go into details, but it has been years and I am at peace with everything regarding that situation and that relationship. My love for that man made me forgive him for some crazy ass behaviour. But I had my moments too. Did I deserve what happened? Hell fucking no. But a part of me at that time was weak and pathetic and so attached, that I would happily take him back no matter what he used to say or do.
It was in me admitting how weak and pathetic I was, which is why I would never ever ever allow even the slightest red flag to occur now. That is how you learn. You take losses and you face yourself in the mirror and admit you’re weak. You then learn to build resilience. You learn to toughen the fuck up. You learn to focus on other things that actually matter in life; instead of questioning why a weak ass man would leave you used, abused or confused (easy answer – it’s because you let him).
It’s time women begin to start being real with themselves. We all have trauma. We all have wounds – from exes, family, childhood; whatever. It’s our responsibility to deal with that and do better.
Kevin Samuels was incredible at telling it exactly how it is. He said what women needed (but didn’t want) to hear.
Stop using any excuse to play the victim and share your hatred.
To share your hatred for a dead man, to appear as some “hero” in support of black women makes you absolute scum. This is the definition of toxic. But I’m sure this dude, just like many others (both male and female, coloured and non-coloured), will do what they do best and keep feeding into this narrative of how they’re the victim.
The fact that you play victim about such basic, harmless content…when in reality you should be fucking grateful you’re not an actual victim.
Kevin Samuel’s conversation were never with proper victims; he was advising stupid hoes who were begging for a 6-figure man when they had nothing but their fake hair and fake tits to offer.
There is a world full of people hurting, homeless and hungry and you think YOU are a victim because no man wants you? You stupid, entitled bitches need to understand that this life will humble you sooner or later. Spiritual warfare is real. You better respect the dead before he fucks you up from the spirit world.
Kevin Samuels… thank you for sharing so much TRUTH. May you Rest in Peace.
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