
Once upon a time, humans did not communicate through words. Language has been constructed (in it’s own way in different parts of the world) to communicate a specific message.
Now it’s safe to say that people have given ‘words’ so much power (and they do) – because each word holds a specific vibration (story for another time).
I put a lot of emphasis on following your intuition to guide you in life, because the words people say aren’t always exactly what they mean or how they feel. We feel many things – and it’s impossible to articulate that. Or sometimes, we feel things we don’t want to – so we say what we want to feel rather than what we actually do.
I’ve personally had so many experiences where I’ve avoided my intuitive inclinations about a specific person or situation… and all I can say is I wish I had trusted myself more.
I’m sharing this because I’ve had a few conversations with family, friends and clients over the past week about our emotions and “inner guidance”.
This is applicable for whatever you’re questioning or facing some sort of indecision about.
Our analytical mind will come up with reasons not to trust your intuition – it’s designed that way – to help us avoid any sort of pain that might arise if our instincts didn’t work out in a positive way.
But just thought I’d remind you – incase you’re getting caught up on words and what people are saying… trust how you feel.
For example: Your intuition is telling you your partner is cheating on you.
You ask your partner and he/ she looks you in the eyes, swears on a family members life, tells you they love you and they promise they’re not cheating.
You feel better, but soon after, that feeling is still there. Eventually, you peep some stuff that confirms it… months/ years later.
At this point you feel sad/ angry/ hurt at the fact that they lied to you.
Of course this is given you have a good sense of self and have a healthy emotional intelligence, capable of distinguishing the different between your intuition and your traumas and aren’t just paranoid – because that happens too. If that’s the case then obviously there’s other conversations that need to be had.
But for the most part – if you are quite intuitive (this is very common in empaths) – then yes, they lied to you but you also lied to yourself because deep down you knew the truth.
I know cheating is a negative example – but that’s because most people who have had that intuitive vibe/ gut feeling about something – usually it’s something negative (because the negative emotions are a lot stronger and easier to detect). It can be a good intuitive feeling too – about anything – a job a child, a parent, a sibling, a friend, a partner, your finances, your health – anything!
If you’re new to all of this and you’re having trouble explaining what you’re feeling – don’t worry. You’re not meant to be able to explain it. It just is.
C x.
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